With Halloween and Remembrance Day behind us and Christmas coming up, I thought I would break from our seasonal themes and focus on something you might need to get you through to the winter break – I’m talking about a little RESPECT! While we often begin our school year with some of these books to help build a positive class community, they are also useful tools for pushing the “respect reset button” if you start noticing classroom respect flying out the window!
Here are my favorite books for helping your class RESET RESPECT!
You Get What You Get – Julia Gassman
“You get what you get and you don’t throw a fit!” – such an important reminder for kids! This is a great book to teach children how to compromise and not throw a tantrum when you don’t get your way! Wonderful illustrations!
Lacey Walker, Non Stop Talker – Christianne Jones
When chatterbox Lacey Walker loses her voice for the day, she discovers everything she either missed out on or didn’t notice because she was always talking. Great message and great ending: I like that Lacey doesn’t go from ONLY talking to ONLY listening. She still loves talking, but now she has a better understanding of listening and being present.
Rulers Of The Playground – Joseph Kuefler
In the same lane as “Mean Jean, the Recess Queen”, this book explores playground politics as two would-be rulers duke it out, divvying up the terrain and alienating playmates in the process. A relateble cautionary tale with a diverse cast of characters.
A Little Bit Of Respect – Claire Alexander
A perfect book for young readers to learn how to stand up for themselves in a respectful manner when something or someone is bothering them. It’s such a short story but filled with advice and tips from “the Ploofers” that are not overbearing or preachy. I haven’t read the other books in this collection (A Little Bit Different and A Little Bit of Courage) and but I’m going to now!
Do Unto Otters (A Book About Manners) – Laurie Keller
I LOVE this one for the start of the school year, but nothing wrong with a revisit! Based on The Golden Rule, this book reminds young readers to treat others the way you would like to be treated. It’s not only a funny and filled with punny storyline and jokes, but it encourages children to be kind and polite.
The Big Cheese – Jory John
The Big Cheese, is the lastest addition to Jory John’s clever Food Group series, this one with a message against showing off and bragging in favor of sharing the spotlight. The story is about Cheese who has a huge ego and an unrealistic desire to be the best in everything. “How did I get such a good — or should I say gouda — reputation?” Lots of laughs, along with some important discussions points in this one.
A Little Respectful Spot – Dianne Alber
A great little book about respect for young readers. I really like how this book gives very practical examples of how to respect people, places and things.
My Mouth Is A Volcano – Julia Cook
Interupting in a classroom is something that can be very direspectful, not to mention annoying! This book is entertaining and teaches children the value of respecting others by listening and waiting for their turn to speak. Such a great book for your respect reset!
What If Everybody Did That? – Ellen Javernick
Such a great book for discussing the impact of our actions! Such a great “mid year” book to review classroom rules and discuss the consequences “if everybody” broke them!
I Can’t Believe I Said That! – Julia Cook
Another book by Julia Cook (hey – that rhymes!), this one can be used to introduce the concept of “social filters” to students. Let’s face it – kids can sometimes be brutaly honest! This book teaches children when it is okay to say things and when it is a good time to keep quiet. I really like how the author clearly distinguishes the difference between honesty and kindness.
Mind Your Manners – Nicola Edwards
Adorable book about manners for your littles! It’s full of misbehaving animals, from messy monkeys to grumpy grizzly bears. Lots of quirky, memorable rhymes and adorable animal illustrations! Love this one!
Decibella And Her 6-Inch Voice – Julia Cook
Choosing and using the correct voice volume is an important way to show respect in a school! This book helps students of all ages learn and remember what voice volume to use when speaking in class, chatting in the library, sitting at the lunch table, or playing outside.
Library Lion – Michelle Knudsen
Lions, libraries and love all wrapped up in this one. This is a favorite of mine – a beautiful story about rules and when they can be broken. Not enough triple scoop words to adequately express how truly wonderful this lion is. If you have never read this book aloud to your class – you MUST!